HOW TO BE THE WOMAN YOU NEED IN YOUR LIFE

7 WAYS IN WHICH WOMEN CAN BE ABSOLUTE QUEENS AND HAVE EACH OTHERS BACK- ALWAYS

You the woman are the epitome of sheer beauty, charm and strength and you are a power that even you fail to recognize.

I often am left in awe when I come across a woman so strong that she can fight the world alone. But why alone? Why not unified?

As a community it is important for us to realize that only a woman will be there for another, she has to willingly let another woman climb over her shoulders and help her fight. We don't even have to fight rather initiate the making of a mighty community by staying together.

And for that to happen we first have to respect ourselves and other women in our lives, our society and the world at large.

Here are 7 ways in which a woman can always be there for another.

Brace yourself and find out ways to improve your relationships with the sheer beauties in your life :)

1. Give a listening ear to her family issues- When a woman talks to you about something that she finds hard talking about, you are the one for her! She considers you to be her ultimate soulmate. Family, as personal as it can get might put varying pressure on her and she has to talk to someone about it. If she does so, first listen without a bias. Keep both your mind and heart open to her words.

Don't interrupt, let her speak. Maintain eye-contact, it shows your concern and just be genuine, after all if you are being fake she will recognize it with her amazing, extraordinary, sensing abilities and it will effectively ruin your relationship. Of course you don't want that!

2. Encourage her to pursue her interests and hobbies - If she is passionate about something help her boost that passion and motivate her to make a living out of it. If you believe that she has the potential, feel free to let her know about your confidence in her. Put yourself in her place, don't you love it when you are encouraged to make the best out of your passion? Some encouraging words go a long way, be that person who gives her some.

3. Get her out of unhealthy relationships- Toxic relationships can get not just women but anyone into deeper distress. This could often be the cause of depression, anxiety and other mental challenges and there will be times when a woman would deny keeping up with unhealthy people. You have to be her night in shining armor.

Talk to her with examples of some of your personal experiences. That will help her look at things from a wider angle. Tell her why this person would never be good enough for her, prove it with some live examples if needed, but just try your best to get her out of it.

4. Give her a piece of your mind if she is blindly being controlled by someone - Only you can control yourself! If you believe this tell her about it. Empowerment starts with small steps and those small steps lie within such scenarios. If what you do, what you wear or eat is under someone else's control eventually that person will be the one taking call on your personal important decisions.

It's never too late so tell her why she shouldn't put up with anyone's decisions if she is not happy with it herself. Note that you should also not get carried away in the process and ultimately be the one controlling her. Be the reason why they choose themselves over anyone else.

5. Talk positive, stay positive- Positivity is the key to better life. Constantly talking about sadness or complaining or whining won't get you anywhere. So instead, be the ideal woman by talking about the good things that keep you or her happy. Talk funny, cheer each other up, and some fun mischief never hurt a soul right?

The ultimate path to a successful relationship is the positivity that it carries. The universe is listening and it would definitely radiate and reflect the positivity back!

6. Never, and I repeat never gossip about her behind her back - Let's face it. Some gossips, we all sure want to hear, but again too much of anything is a waste. And back bitching about the women that have stayed through thick and thin in your life is just bad. There is no justification to it. It's WRONG GURL! Also it eventually reaches out to the person, they hear about it and there goes your trust, the relationship, mercilessly, down the drain. Why risk it? Have an issue with her? Talk to HER before anyone else. Resolve it. There you go, you are already feeling lighter and are becoming one fine woman!

7. Give your opinions only when needed, let her make her own decisions- We women love discussing each other's problems and stating our views, and advises. But don't go too far with your brilliant advises and opinions. Stop and think . Did she ask for it? Did she ask YOU about what YOU think about her boyfriend? Did she ask for YOUR advice on her career choices?

Answer these questions and you know where to stop. You better stop when needed or else she will be gossiping about you with your frenemies! But if that happens, this article comes to your rescue, share it with her and go be a true woman and make not necessarily perfect but beautiful memories with candid women and men of course, why leave them alone ;)