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But I never asked for your opinion!

  • Writer: Sharanya Nair
    Sharanya Nair
  • May 30, 2020
  • 3 min read

To us millennials,

I am writing something small, with the hope that it reaches the right people and the right minds


I'll keep it simple, I just want to say, nobody asked you for your opinion !

Unless people themselves, keyword here, THEMSELVES asked for your advice or an opinion, don't go around being the worst Santa Claus people could possibly wish for, one that has a bag of opinions.




Stop acting like you know everything that ever existed in this world, neither am I an expert nor are you, we are all just in the process of learning, growing, evolving.





Nobody asked for your opinion

Whether she's your friend, your classmate, or your neighbour

Whether it is the skirt she wore, the thighs she "exposed", the arms she didn't shave, the heels in which she tripped.

Whether it's the pink shirt he wore or the nails he painted,

We are millennials, we are so much better than this!





Nobody asked for your opinion

And if you are that someone who can go around complimenting someone only to gossip about them behind their backs, remember, you are the most insecure and probably the most pretentious one in the room




(I am only spilling the tea of facts here sisters[and brothers too, god, don't get offended])


A few laughs, some demeaning stare is just you consuming yourself into this vacuum of hatred and jealousy which is, mind you, not easy to come out of

It is easy to put up a face that people believe in

But you are not "cool", stop pretending

You are dying within everyday, bit by bit, distancing yourself from reality


Stop being racist, sexist, homophobic, transphobic and think it's funny

Stop being unnecessarily rude to people

Stop judging everyone

Stop with all that negativity, it is only giving you a headache




Nobody asked for your opinion

And it is easy to call her a whore, a bimbo or a slut.

It is easy to think that some guy is not "manly" enough

It is easier to pretend to be a feminist when your actions are contradictory

It is easier to pretend to be a human when you are actually a monster digging your own grave.



I am not going to sugar coat any of this

Such people disgust me

And if you, in some way are offended by any of this, remember you are disgusting. Try to change honey, being that nasty will hurt you, because when the strongest youngsters see your real self, there won't be any pity


Millions of people are dealing with sh*t every day, they are just like you, going through much more even. Once I get old and look back at my youth, I want it to be encouraging enough for the future generation. I won't say set an example. That's mainstream. But try to be better at things and try to keep an open mind.


On a personal level I have been a witness to such behaviour and even experienced it to a minor extend, which is why I am all about the bitch face ! *laughs*

(Okay I'll stop with that)


Also stop stressing about what others think of you. Let's be real. People can be shameless and pretty narrow minded, but as my mom would always say

"you are not a garbage bin to take in their trash". Let them be.


And if you are worried about them bitching behind your back ? Come on, let their unrefined being have some low-quality fun !



Stop arguments, start seeing other people's perspective. But if the person is only toxic like plastic to mother nature, don't think twice before cutting them out. There is so much more to our society than just some dumb fu*ks, because surprise, good people do actually exist, you will find them eventually. Good things take time.


And I know the world is not just black and white, there are colours, shades, hues and tints, there is this whole variety; but being completely negative towards everything is something we can all definitely avoid.



Be strong enough to stand for what you think is right, if someone gets too cocky, make sure to be the best possible lesson on 'how to deal with humans and their emotions' they ever had ;)



At the end of the day, just believe in yourself more each passing day and try to be as real and positive as you can

That's all


Thanks folks, bye :)

 
 
 

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